It's interesting to me that your h is still just sane enough to hold onto this business meanwhile making all sorts of other completely insane decisions. The way he brought on his brother so that he can run off and play? It's interesting to see the way he's making logic based decisions with pure emotions.
HaWho, he's made a lot of dumb decisions. There have been many times that I've had to function (business-wise) in spite of him instead of with him and some of those financial hoops I had to jump through were because of him. Same with BIL, but I don't have to deal with that issue any longer.
I find it interesting that in both our cases (and many others), the roles seem to be reversed. I mean women are supposed to make emotional decisions and men are supposed to be the ones to make logical, unemotional decisions.
I don't know about your H, but for the past few years mine will make a split second decision (that he usually comes to regret) out of pure emotion. I, on the other hand, have learned through all this to think things through, consider the possible outcomes, etc. before committing to a plan of action (or inaction). I find it fascinating.
Anyway, thanks for stopping by. I always value the input and perspective I get from all the wonderful people on this board.
[[[HUGS}}} 2T
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013
