Oh yeah...... fifthly.You know that you should remain calm unemotional and validate IF he makes such a statement. That is priceless as reacting the wrong way really does not help


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together