Oh yeah...... fifthly.You know that you should remain calm unemotional and validate IF he makes such a statement. That is priceless as reacting the wrong way really does not help
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together