Sorry, I was off celebrating my birthday. I needed a little change of focus. I have taken the stance of being here if he needs me, I am not telling him what to do but I did stress not just making any decision at the moment. Step back, calm down and clear your head.
I have given him lots of advice over the years but at the end of the day, this is going to be his choice. He knows what I went through obviously but this is different and I get that.
I am here to be his rock, his stability and to give my .02 when asked for. All I want for all of my kids is their happiness. I can help him work through it, but at the end of the day, it isn't my storm or my fight.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory