I imagine that if W truly wanted to reconcile she would not be the person you doubt you want back! Just a thought.
I wanted to add something to my last post. Check out my last thread or look up caliguys thread. There is a tool about changing character traits and involves three lists.
1 list things you like about you 2 list things you dislike about you 3 list things that you find admirable in others or in an ideal you.
First list is to show you you already have many fine qualities. Then work towards replacing items from list 2 by items on list 3.
Some people here have found this exercise helpful in becoming the person they want to be, but also helps to get moving again. Let me know your thoughts on that.
Way to go on the latest fun activity. Love that why the hell not attitude.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
