I hope one day to come on this site and see a breakthrough post on your thread.The silence tells me there is no significant change but you are coping well. I am glad you cope so well, despite your situation.
Do you ever look back on your posts to others? They come across superbly. You understand their pain, you share learnings that you have made on your path and you give helpful tips/advice. I just wanted to acknowledge your influence here. You really give to others. Don't underestimate the power of your words to others. You are a great asset to this community.
I hope you are taking care of yourself and loving that old guy on the mirror!!
I have not forgotten that I said I would review your situation and share some thoughts that I have. But neither of us is going anywhere soon!! I will make the time but for now I too am busy busy busy.
Best wishes
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together