New here and separated

[Coly23]

Hi bodhi, thank you and sorry to also see you here. I am also suprise at the number of male DBers on here but It gives me comfort to know that men are just as caring and eager to save their marriages and I don't mean that in a condescending way at all!

Just a question to throw out there for you DBers. Whilst going semi dark-dark my H still has a lot of contact with my daughter. After a few dodgy weeks of her being very angry with him they are now communicating on a daily basis. Whilst I am over the moon that they are still able to carry on a relationship am I being unreasonable in thinking that he might feel he has no reason to contact me at all? After all she can fill him in with what's been going on in our lives. For example we went into the City at the weekend for a show so he texted and called her to find out how it went. I want to GAL and seem a little mysterious but if he is checking up on me through my daughter it makes me mad! I have suggested that if he asks how we are she should only talk about herself and what she has done unless we have done a family activity. Any suggestions?