Thanks cherry! I really wonder if I did the wrong thing this time away by not being in touch with WH. I left most emails unanswered and really took my time on others. Maybe he thinks I don't care? I'm trying to be unpredictable. I wish we had learned how to fight better but we are so conflict avoidance. It Sux!
You are on the right path - STOP worrying about what he thinks, that is not why you are doing what you are doing.
