Please Google high conflict divorce. There is no point in mediation wit has a high conflict personality.
Straight to court and nail it, you will need to know your stuff and it will cost if L does some of the work.
Know everything you can about OW, how much she earns because if he lives with OW you get more. All of the dirt.
It will hurt honey, it is pain like you have never known, lies, manipulations. You will need all the paper you can get.
And three words,cards close chest.
Keep on posting it's going to be a bumpy ride and you will see behaviour so vile you would not believe. The courts may be used againsto you. There are good Ls that can deal with this type of behaviour ensure you have one.
Believe nothing you are told. Stay so calm and truth darts are of little use.
I am going to extend the abuse thread to high conflict divorce in the next few weeks. I would be grateful for your observations.
I am D but no fins done yet that is my conflict.
It's tough to stay centred and remain composed. To try and wish the best for WH in his new R.
Keep posting Msd.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
