Just Tired

[ForGump]

What is normal?

9% married men in their 40's report not having sex in the last year.
16% of them report having sex a few times a year to monthly.
51% of them report having sex about once a week.
20% of them say 2-3 times a week.
4% of them say more than 4 times a week.

This is based on a study by the Kinsey Institute. To find the actual table and a link to the study, search the Internet for "average is kind of sad." It should turn up at the top.

I've also seen some studies that define (something like) 6-8 times a year or less to be a "sexless marriage."