So w went to her parents to visit this week (left Saturday) and started texting me more than she has been starting this weekend, including pics of the kids. We spoke for a little while Monday night, only a few minutes but she was nice and more like her old self. It was weird to just say bye, I almost accidentally said love you out of habit even though idt we've spoke by phone since BD. More pics and friendly texts yesterday. Then this morning she sent a pic of the kids and said "love them." I told her it was a precious picture and that I love the kids so much too. She told me to remind her to tell me about their disagreement. We had a few more texts and then she unexpectedly called me 5-10 minutes later. She told me a story about the kids having a little fight that happened almost a week ago while at step-in laws. We talked about 15 minutes, mostly about kids, and I got to ask her how her dad was doing. She said okay and described a lot of the chemo effects. I told her to let me know if there was anything I could do for her or them. She said she didn't know what it would be then changed the subject back to the kids. She sounded a little more like her old self again in this conversation too. I told her thank you for sharing her story about the kids and that I was glad they were all having a good trip and ended it on a good note. No r talk. Then this afternoon she texted to ask me about the oil filter for her car and said she was having trouble finding somewhere to do it that would use the right oil. Wow, she was listening! Idk why she decided to do it out of town on her trip but didn't ask.
Maybe I'm thinking about this too much but it was quite a change that she called me today plus the short conversation a couple days ago. Am I seeing something with her? Idk what to think. I dont want to get my hopes up but it seems like a change as we only text.
She just called to apologize and tell me she fell asleep because she was hurting with her med issue and didn't get my text about calling the kids tonight. Then texted to apologize again after talking to the kids. She told me earlier her dad had plans for them tonight so I didn't think to much about it. Normally she would've just texted.
Idk, hopefully I'm not seeing something that's not there. I'll see if it happens again and make sure no r talk and to end things on a good note, not trying to discuss to much at once (baby steps).
