Here's a funny thing. Back quite a few years ago we taught a young married's Sunday School class. I even worked up some material for marriage seminars. My research showed that the number one reason for divorce was unrealistic expectations (by one party or the other...or both). Now, here I am years later...on a forum trying to decide if it's worth the effort. It is me? Is it her? Do I stay for the kids? Do I kiss them goodbye and see them again on Wednesday? That part of it just breaks my heart. I could do without seeing her for a lot longer than next Wednesday, but not them. I love my kids.


Married: 15 yrs (anniversary on Aug 4th)
Kids: Boy (10) and Girl (7)
Age: 47