Third time's a charm, I hope.

[bodhi]

I guess one thing that makes me feel like waiting is the right decision is because, aren't we all kind of "Plan B" here anyways if reconciliation happens with a WAS? Unless of course your WAS is separating with only the intention of working on the marriage, but I see more stories on here of the spouse intending for divorce or having an A.

Otherwise, everyone's spouse here leaves because they think the grass will be greener, their Plan A. If they realize Plan A isn't working out like they imagined, and realize that they want to work on the M, isn't that technically Plan B anyways?

Maybe I'm grasping a little for hope.