I just read your post Rouky, and am genuinely happy for you! I'm so glad things are getting better day by day. Reiki and the spiritual reading sounds awesome! That's my cup of tea!

As for the date....I'm glad you had a nice time. I know it's not the best DB strategy, but I have found that going on dates allows me to really be true to myself and meet men/ find a potential partner who truly gets me and values me and vice versa. To me dating is like applying all our DB lessons in real life. It's really fun!

Re: your H- meh... Not your circus nor your monkeys. Even if it's just lip service, it doesn't sound like his romantic life is all rainbows and cupids. There's real life stuff in there like family and children that have to be brought into the mix eventually if that r is meant to move forward. The good news is, you don't have to worry about it.


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16