bodhi -- I would be wary. With him losing his job, you have to be careful he's not doing just enough to keep you on the hook as backup/security in case things really fall apart for him. Probably not what you want to hear, but I've already seen in my month+ here that these things rarely go fast or smoothly for any of those us in our sitch.
I hope I'm 100% wrong!
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)