I did something like this myself but instead of tearing it up, I gave it to her. Not sure if it had an impact or not but W stopped talking about leaving, went through a rough patch and then actually did leave saying that she needed time and space to think. At the time I had thought (wrongly) that the A was over and that I was dealing with a WAW not a WW. I've redacted most of it to save space. Here's a partially redacted version of the main paragraphs.
I honestly don't know if it had an impact or not and if WW is actually thinking or is living the life with OM. My heart and what she said to me and S22/D24 is that she's thinking but I've been wrong SO many times before when I practice mind-reading.
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I feel that the time has now come for us to move beyond the past and start rebuilding our life together. <snip> you may chose differently than what I have hoped and waited for.
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If on the other hand you feel that our marriage and family cannot be saved or that you still cannot decide in a reasonable time then I will reluctantly need to pursue my own legal advice on ending our marriage and breaking up our family for the sake of my own well-being and to secure the future for myself and our children.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
