For Gump -- no, we didn't talk about it in front of them in terms of a D. They know enough kids at school who've gone through it, though, that they know to be fearful of it. It is indeed heartbreaking.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)