Just because he SAYS he wants a divorce and just because you VALIDATE that he wants one does not mean anything. He still has lots of work to do to get a divorce. Personally I would not help him. If he wants a divorce then agree with him, validation, I understand husband that you want a divorce. Then STFU and just listen and no matter what he says - agree. You are just speaking words. Just take NO ACTIONS on these words - OK?
You are attaching a lot of EXPECTATIONS to this "TALK" I would try to lower them to zero.