Sorry to do this but it is best to stick to one thread until 100 posts. So I merged this thread into the previous one.
You can re-title posts in the middle of it if you wish.
Glad you feel that you have good news.
I would caution you to believe nothing he says. Trust Actions not words.
No worries! I didn't notice that rule, thank you for fixing it for me instead of just deleting it so I didn't have to retype it
For your bit of advice, which part do you suggest I believe? I guess his action is that he is not filing for the divorce, at least not yet. That to me says that there's at least still a chance at things working out. His action of not responding to my last message though definitely tells me he does not want to talk to me, at least not right now.
The anxiety that it sounds like he'll be seeking someone else out is what has me nervous. It also makes me feel like he doesn't really care if things work out, notably because he said he knows I have guys knocking down my door begging to take me out. I guess I feel like if he cared, he'd be worried about that. He doesn't seem to be.
M 24 H 27 together 6 • married 3.5 BD round #3: 07/10/2016