I've come to learn that real love is selfless, there can be no space for selfishness. The minute we do things for ourselves, we lose ourselves to those wants. Their is joy in making other people happy without a need for reciprocation or "cheese".
If I look at my life, I have everything that I need. I wanted my XWW, I did. But did i need her, was it not selfish to hold onto someone that did not want me anymore? So i needed to be selfless. Letting her go was selfless, getting a D was selfish. The last selfish act that I plan on doing in a R.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
