Doodler - I directly asked the questions. I don't think so, based on the job she has. She loves being productive. However, she has also stated if I didn't have anger issues and was more supportive, she would of been content to be a stay at home W/mother.
I didn't press her about getting a job, but when we were arguing I knew how to push her buttons and would talk about she needed to get a job and contribute. This wasn't true more of me being a A$$ and trying to hurt her below the belt.
I always knew I was pushing buttons/fighting below the belt in our arguments, but my selfishness, pride, ego and arrogance made such a incredible jerk. These sessions would be as common as once a quarter.
