My W is not materialistic and understands our currently sitch.
Yes but I am not sure you understand it.
Do your understand your sitch? How about do you understand it from her point of view?
Originally Posted By: your wife
she also stated I still don’t love you, but in her heart maybe with this space she could find a spark to try for our marriage, but made it clear she didn’t think there was one.
Can you explain WHY she doesnt love you?
You think it is all about your anger issues and rage? I am not saying those are good traits and that you should not FIX them, BUT is it the REAL reason?