All of the data say even an unhappy but quiet/calm marriage is better for kids than a "happy" divorce...
(Sorry for the barrage -- too many parallels between your situation and mine).
Could you point out where I can find the data? Thanks.
Also, have your kids picked up on any of what's going on between you and your W?
Chapter 1 of DR?
JRuss - why are you listening to anything she's saying? These are all feelings. As you said, her feelings may change in a year. I don't think you should make any moves at all based on these words. Just keep focusing on your own goals.
