I went to the ordered mediation and she was a no- show. They told me to just go to the trial next month, as they couldn't talk to me without her there. You would think this would not make her look good, but I have this feeling she was told by her attorney that she didn't have to show and there will be no consequences. Not sure though, as she wouldn't do this if she hadn't been advised. At least that's what I think. Who knows??