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All of the data say even an unhappy but quiet/calm marriage is better for kids than a "happy" divorce...


(Sorry for the barrage -- too many parallels between your situation and mine).

Could you point out where I can find the data? Thanks.

Also, have your kids picked up on any of what's going on between you and your W?

Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final