Thanks Gump, I think that's exactly what she is doing, trying to reduce her guilt for what she has done and feels like she owes it to our D to stay close to me so we can do "family" things together. I just can't do that, not any time soon anyway.
Next few months will tell the story.
That's what I feel like my W is doing. She likes to say "I won't be cruel" as if destroying your son's family and cheating on your H isn't cruel. What a joke. Stay strong man. They use the kids as a weapon so it's hard sometimes.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.