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RSG, The more I read your story the more I wonder if your WW is actually my WW and is bouncing between us on a secret life. Jokes of course.

I cannot explain what happened in my head a few days ago, but I changed. I am certain I am still on the roller coaster, but I am so much closer to accepting what was once unacceptable: the WW cannot be rationalized or rationed with, this behavior will last longer than we want or are ready for, I cannot save my WW, I cannot try to help my WW, I cannot control my WW, the WW does not care about the LBS (but in small moments they realize they want to or should), every action your WW takes is justifiable to themselves in the name of doing what they feel they have to do.

And realizations from the above: I control me. I can keep myself together. I can get through today. I can be nice and positive without giving in. If I give in, I learn from that behavior for the future.I will be better, no matter what happens in my life, I will be better.

All that said, yes, WW's are the most confusing thing which I have ever encountered, so I am not even going to contest your last statement. Stay cool my friend.