Feeling much stronger today. After deciding to go 'dim to dark' and only sending one text to WAH since last Friday (about money) I just got a joint text from H to both me and my daughter about coming over to us on Friday this week with a takeaway. I know this is for him to see his step-daughter and not me but the pre-last Friday Coly23 would have gone back within minutes saying how lovely that would be. However the new Coly23 is going to sit on it for a few hours before I respond, after all I am quite a busy woman!!

Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')