JRuss - you said an import thing there - "echo chamber". People yell words off mountains that they expect to hear back and it bounces around and reinforces.

I know that I pushed my W without success to go to an IC in large part so that she could talk and be listened to, not just hear back the same "you could do so much better" noise that has been filling her ears for the last year or more. Is your W open to that? Some of these "friends" are poison which is why it is important for BOTH sides to not yell into these echo chambers. I know that I'm guilty of it too.

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I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good.
But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells