I see it as a one time event and not an ongoing thing. I believe it is a wake up call that it is time to make some changes and not take each other for granted.
I felt as if I was punched in the stomach honestly. I did message her and let her know it was going to take real work to make things right, that I loved her but the best thing right now as to give each other space and to not hurt each other with words.
Got a bit more perspective talking to Bets last night. So we shall see what comes.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory