Yes I agree about looking after yourself and clothes, as well as working on the internal stuff. There's no harm in looking a bit sharp when you see her - ie: not in tracksuit bottoms and an old t-shirt & trainers - but in a shirt and nice fitting jeans or trousers. Haircut, dash of cologne.Ie: looking like a guy who has some place to go. And better still if you actually do have plans!!
Apart from what your W may think, you start to feel better about yourself and you may get compliments too. As a case in point, I work with an LBS guy who lost a pile of weight when he and his W broke up. For ages, he was wearing a baggy shirt and loose trousers pulled in with a belt. Recently, he invested in a new work wardrobe with slim fit shirts and trousers in the right size. Wow - he looks great and I thought - I had no idea he had such a great physique.....it wouldn't do any WAS no harm to think the same. xx
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