Talked to WH (he gets up early and woke at the same time) and he admitted the A with OW while he was with ExW and couldn't remember ever having said otherwise. He very specifically told me before that he was with OW right before he met ExW, so he portrayed it as not cheating. Such a web of lies. Then he added that ExW cheated on him first. I reminded him that two wrongs don't make a right and many people do terrible things.
He gets upset by my questions. Tough. No, I'm not DB'ing, this is just me processing without any concern about what it does to our R. Don't try this at home, folks!
It's sad to see how this had messed up the kids. Both of them have to engage in make- believe to cope.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
