I've been off the boards for a while disconnecting as much as possible. W texted occasionally asking for wedding photos etc and complaint about S not keeping in touch. Now we are back and I have been in touch about her contribution to S which continues to be wrong. She avoided the issue and asked if I wanted to meet her and S for lunch. No thanks. She has arranged with S to spend 5 days in her home village. It is a time when there are lots of things happening and we normally go for longer. My dad told me that when he spoke with S that S had said he would only go if OM wasn't going. It will be good for them and will give me a small break. Today I emailed W to confirm the dates and raise another query ( which she hasn't answered) and she replied inviting me to go too! More importantly she told me they are building new flats across the road and she'd like to talk to me abou buyingt a small one. She says she can't buy it on her own. I haven't replied yet. I know it doesn't change her R with OM and she just wants some security for her. Obviously she could ask for her share of our flat at anytime which would be a long term tie for me as I'd have to take out a large loan. I think we'll have to meet but not sure how to move forward.
