Good to hear Natus, wallow in the sadness if you must, but don't distract yourself, feel every last bit of it so that you never feel like that again.

I used to cry anywhere and my son would ask whats wrong, and i'd say, my knee is sore, and he'd say that i must put a plaster on it. Always so cute.

The pining does stop, it is attachment. Real love and what she had for you are two different things. Real love is action. And she stopped showing the right action a long time ago.

I too cried for the breakdown in the family unit, thats the right tears to have. It is hard to see what you worked so hard for break down.

Remember tho, that when you think that everything is falling apart, they're actually just falling into place - So what is falling into place?

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.