It is good, thats one of the things about this forum. It talks about detachment and giving your toxic partner to your higher power. There is only one higher power.
Yet, the entire DB theory is somehow based on the premise that you have control over the things in your life. If you gym, learn to self-validate and 180 then your WW will start becoming romantically attracted to you again.
I believe that this whole thing has happened (to me at least) as the Higher Power is showing you something - your WW is fickle, and you're fickle for trying to hang on to someone that the Higher Power is taking away from you - why is He doing it - well, ask Him and you might just attain the POWER OF NOW! I have.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
