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[Coly23]

Hi ForGump, thanks for your response and maybe you are right, it does make me feel connected. On your previous comment when you said you have mostly cried for your children I can relate to this. My daughter's biological Dad has not seen her since she was seven, she is now fifteen. This is his choice. My H is aware of this and on our wedding day he stood up in front of everyone and promised to be the Dad to her that she deserves. This is the bitterest pill to swallow because yet again she has been let down. It has been the cause of many a sobbing session to...