Help! My daughter and I are away with my parents for the week. Even though we're separated, I told him he was more than welcome to come see her at the beach and my mom even sent a nice text message saying he's always welcome, blah blah. I never wanted to get my hopes up that he would come, but I just saw that he got someone to cover his class tomorrow so he is free all day. There's a part of me that's thinking he's gonna come see her, but I know when that doesn't happen I'm gonna be crushed. How do I deal with the disappointment??? How do I not get my hopes up???


Me: 37
Husband: 35
Married 5 years, together 13
Daughter - 1
Bomb dropped - 12/28/2015
He's moving out (officially) - 4/15/2016
EA confirmed 6/1/16
PA confirmed 8/1/16