No, I don't, but I don't entirely know what to do. I found this site and the online community after doing some google searches along the lines of, "when is it better for the kids if you divorce." The thought of having split custody with her where they have to put up with her for several days without me there to be a buffer is not a good thought. My kids are wonderful, but I can see her anger and in ability to deal with life rubbing off on them. MWD says there is hope for the marriage. I'm still not so sure, but I'm willing to make some posts, read some posts, look at some articles and see if anyone has any better ideas. I did read some of the links that you put up and there is some good stuff there. Lately, I have been taking some of those actions (not knowing they were on your list). We have had very limited conversations lately (the last 3-4 days) and I seem to have calmed down some just not having to hear her. 'Course that is no prescription for a great marriage, but it's better than hearing all the negativity.
Last edited by Cadet; 07/27/1605:18 AM. Reason: Carriage returns for readability
Married: 15 yrs (anniversary on Aug 4th) Kids: Boy (10) and Girl (7) Age: 47
