good direction or backsliding?

[RDS]

Thank you forgump.

rds- I'm not on the mortgage... Didn't want things to get ugly. When she's what I call "crazy" mode there is no reasoning.

I understand you not being on the mortgage, but did she have the house before you were married? My name is the only one on the mortgage but my W has full access to the house if she wanted and there isn't anything I can do about it.

I've seen too many men get screwed because they left the house because they thought it was the "right" thing to do and it turns out it was the worst thing they could have done, even if the W goes into crazy mode.