RSG, I don't think you crying is a setback. You are doing nothing an awesome job with your S. You are showing him a strong independent man. And a strong independent man can shed a tear every now and then. A setback would be texting your W all day and giving her access. Continue to detach, continue to limit info to your W. If you and your W divorce then do you plan on constantly giving her updates, etc? Think about that. What does your life look like without W? And when you understand that then you will know how to communicate and correspond with W Don't be mean or rude, but you are living your life right now Patience!!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
