Thanks for the support and advice, HaWho. I trust your input and believe you are right. I don't know this guy anymore. I ended up calling him the next night and asking him what he meant. I got the "cold" response...guarded and not at all friendly. He replied that he just felt that I had questions and maybe didn't feel I could call and ask him. That's pretty much the only reason I ever call! Such BS! I'm starting to feel very manipulated. He keeps telling me how he doesn't spend money, lives in a crappy apartment and lives on frozen burritos. Showed me his new swim trunks and said that's the first thing he's bought himself forever. Maybe he forgot his trip to Vegas, to CA, to a house in MT to ski.
I've come to the conclusion that he's so deep in MLC, I can't care. It will tear me up. I can't be swayed by the sob stories anymore...he's not swayed by mine. So, I've handed it over to my L. If he chooses to talk to me I'll listen. I think I'm done sharing my info with him as if we're friends, though. He doesn't really seem to care much about what I'm doing anyway. Just likes to tell me what he thinks I would like. I can now put some distance between us and leave him to his life. It does sound like my L is pushing for mediation. This needs to happen. I'm no longer afraid of how he will view my every move. It doesn't matter. He is looking out for him so I will look out for me. Let the Ls decide. I hate that it has to be this way, but this was his choice. He needs to own it.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
