Thanks for the 2x4's guys! I definitely am too much of a nice guy. I haven't been around much cause I was too busy GAL. I went to the Guns N Roses concert last week and it was awesome! I took the bus and the W texted to see if I had left and I told her I had. She then texted me so that I could tell her when I arrived, which I did as well. A couple of days later I called to speak to my S. W said: Hey lost guy, to which I said hey how are you, can I talk to S? W says yes, how was the trip? I said the trip was awesome, she asks about my cousin, I said he's doin good, let me talk to S. And W puts S on, I talk to S and then I hang up. W texts if I'm done, I said yeah and she 6 said ok. That was two days ago and she hasn't texted since. It is super hardhard to not text her! What I will do is I will treat her like a neighbor. Our S4's birth day is in August and I am not planning on going to her party so that she doesn't get any ideas about us being a family. Don't know if I am doing it right