Because you want him to feel connected to you, consciously and subconsciously. As long as it doesn't mess w/ your own head too much. It's not about what makes logical sense, I think -- it's about what works.
I'd walk a thousand miles right now for a kiss from my W.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final