Coly23, welcome. I'm in the same situation as you. W left and now renting an apartment. Told me she never loved me. She took off her ring too. I did not suspect she was seeing anyone, but it turn out she was having an EA with OM. I too was pleading, begging, giving her gifts and flowers to try to come back. But it pushed her further away. I have taken advice here about going dark. So far, 5 days & NC. I notice that she will text to try to start a conversation, but I had fallen for that before. I would go NC for 4 days, she will text small talk. I enthusiastically respond, she would then get angry. But sound to me that your H is more leveled out, as he isn't playing games with you. Do you suspect another woman?


Me: 42
Her: 39
Kids: 2
ILYBNILWY: 5/17/2016
D-Day: 5/17/2016
Verified OM: 5/17/2016
Verified she told OM ILY: 5/21/2016
Moved Out: 5/19/2016