Don't know what to do

[stacey9]

Hi Sunny, yes I'm still here! Thanks so much for checking in on me.

The rollercoaster continues. H is now back living with OW and although he's been friendly and pleasant for the last few weeks there has been no flirting or affection from him at all. Now it seems he wants to get close again. He is flirty and talking about what happened recently between us and how he'd love for it to happen again. What is going on with him?

I thought he must have had a major fall out with OW before which would explain is sudden desire to be with me. But everything certainly appears to be going swimmingly with them both now according to little snippets of info I've heard from the kids. As Mozza said he only showed interest in me when he lost access to her which makes sense but now I just have no idea what's going on in his mind. If OW could hear what he was saying to me I'm pretty sure it would be over between them.

I've not reciprocated in any way and have just tried to stay out of his way as much as possible. Could he be a narcissist as KML thinks?

What would any of you think if your ex suddenly started becoming affectionate again? Would it repulse you?