Detaching.....nearly there..

[Surfer]

Betterm. Amazing. I'd say intuitive but it's obvious that human behaviour patterns are the same and you have experienced your W do the same things (exactly). It feels good to know you and others have been there and when ether wheels come off you all help to put them back on.

How do I do detaching. By not contacting her and 'acting as if' we were always just caring guardians of two beautiful children, then simply working on being happy.