#46 Tomorrow is Another Day

[kat727]

My heart just broke a bit. My oldest son's girlfriend called me today at work to tell me she had cheated on him!! I think I was in shock most of the conversation but couldn't think why she was telling me this. When I spoke with my son, he said it was her punishment. WTH??

I told him that right now they both needed to step back and not try to hurt each other more. They live together, their lease just renewed. I have a financial obligation if this all goes kaboom(silly of me). Of course I understand everything that comes with this, the hurt, the anger. the fact that whatever happened occurred with his best friend/who is like a third son to me. My head is spinning and I just want to give him good advice. As a reminder, I didn't come here until my marriage was already going through the courts, so I didn't have support while this was playing out in the beginning.

This was the girl he wanted to marry. He kept telling that I had been right all along and that he should have listened to me. I just told him that I didn't think it was a good idea to live together until they got their lives going sort of stuff.

Thank goodness my boss is gone, because I have been a bit of a mess the last couple of hours. Words of wisdom?

kat