Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 2)

[ForGump]

Man, look on the bright side. She slept in the same bed with you. She kissed you on the cheek. And you have some meaningless sex to look forward to once a week. That's hell of a lot more than what others have going on in their broken marriages.

(But don't let all that go to your head -- I think detaching is still the best thing to do.)