(ii) days go by, without much of anything happening, and, mentally, I check off another day gone as we apparently move closer to the day we split.
JRuss - I have bad news for you. At some point in your life, you are going to die. I dont know when, but I promise it will happen.
With that said, do you check off each day as a day closer to death? Or do you count the number of successful days that you have had? I think you should consider to approach this like that. Dont worry about a countdown clock....youre counting down to a future you cant possibly know. Focus on instead making each day as good as it can be.
