Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 2)

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JRuss... I have to say... a wife who says is no longer attracted to you and wants to leave but then is willing to stay for 1-2 years while having sex... that sounds like someone who is still trying to sort out all her feelings in her head/heart. It's still a very painful place to be, for you, but if I were in your shoes I'd have a bit of hope that she can still come around to her senses, that you can repair and rebuild your marriage, slowly. Just a thought. It just seems like a much (or maybe just somewhat) better place than where I am.