Keeps getting worse, 180 not working

[RDS]

Advice please!
After 48 hours of no contact with me, WH emailed and not sure how and if I should respond at this point. His sick and elderly dad needs care for four days end of August and he asked... "Think you might be available for some of this time?"
We are so up and down and clearly my boundaries have been weak so normally I would have already said yes. There are three of the siblings who don't want to do more than a night or day. I do not want to take up all the slack. I want to discuss this and not by email. Ideas please!! Thanks so much!

I'm by no means an expert, but I would agree to help care for his elderly dad for a day or two, but no more. I think this goes beyond the DB thing and it crosses into the right thing to do for his dad's health. I couldn't imagine how turning your heart away from helping your H's dad would be a good thing.

I would think this is also a time to communicate with your H person to person about this, and not through email. This requires a personal touch.